An acquaintance of mine lent me her brain the other day. She lends it to me from time to time so that I can think from a woman's perspective. And you know what happens when a guy like me has that kind of power in his hands, the days that follow allows him to acquire even more insights into how stupid he's being. So after a little course correction, I returned the brain that was on loan and came away better for it. As I draw closer to my third parole hearing, my thoughts turn